There are so many blogs that offer advice on the best ways to date and what you should do in order to meet like-minded people and get what you want, yet, there really is only one piece of advice that really matters. That advice is to be true to yourself. Think about it like this, when other people are authentic, you are likely more attracted to them. When people are being true to themselves they find the people who like them for who they are, flaws and all. Also, it takes so much energy to pretend to be someone else. When you are you, you are living your truth and many people will be attracted to you because of it.

Phone dating is a great way to test the waters of dating. You can easily make new friends and lovers and not have to spend lavishly or worry about STDs. To get started, dial into the chat line number and you will be instantly connected to someone new. Then simply have a conversation and find out more about your new phone pal. Typically within a matter of a few minutes, you will find out whether you’re on the same page with your phone friend. If you like one another and want to continue the conversation, great. If not, there’s no need to fret, simply say goodbye and end the call. You can always redial the chat line number when you’re ready to speak with someone new.

Do your best to show yourself through the conversations you have on the chat lines. Talk about things you enjoy and see if you and others have similar interests. Use active listening skills to find out more about your phone friend. Try out new things and learn about new ideas through different people. Figure out more about yourself and others by having deep and meaningful conversations or simply have fun with phone sex and try out a fantasy or two.