When an older guy likes you, he’ll make you feel special. He’ll treat you like a queen and give you his undivided attention.
He’ll also be mature in all aspects of your relationship. This is a refreshing change from the “YOLO” mentality of younger men. He’ll want to commit to you.
1. He’s not afraid to make a move
Unlike some younger guys who can be shy about making a move, older men aren’t afraid to express their interest in you. They’ve been through this before and know what it takes to win you over sexually.
This is because they’ve likely dated someone their own age before and have the experience to draw upon. This also means they’re familiar with the mood shifts that often accompany a relationship.
They’re also more focused on substance than the shallow interests that many young guys have, which could make them a better long-term partner. For example, they’re not obsessed with their own penis like some younger dudes are (dubbed “penti Shots”). Instead, they’ll be more interested in getting to know you.
2. He’s mature
A sexy older guy knows that life has its ups and downs. He’s willing to go through it with you, even if it’s tough. He’s mature enough to see a healthy relationship through.
If he’s always complaining, trying to be better than you, or constantly puts you down, he’s not mature enough for you. He may seem sweet one minute and mean the next, which can be hard to navigate early on in a relationship.
A mature man is open to new ideas, perspectives, and beliefs. He’s willing to compromise and find a solution you both can live with. He’s also compassionate and empathetic toward others, regardless of their age or background. This is a great sign of maturity! He knows that the world is bigger than him.
3. He’s not afraid to be honest
Men who are older and have had enough of dating idiots can be more straightforward when it comes to expressing how they feel about you. They are not afraid to be honest about their feelings, their expectations and more. They don’t beat around the bush and say things that they don’t mean just to make you jealous and they don’t want you to think he’s only interested in sex.
They don’t mind if you are honest about your feelings too because they see you as more than just their sexual partner. They value your sense of humor, your intellect and your values too. They also know that foreplay is the key to a great sex session that gives you multiple orgasms. They will wait until they are confident you’re ready for sex before they start.
4. He’s not afraid to make you feel special
Unlike many younger men, sexy older guys know what they want from a woman. They’ve had enough experiences and aren’t afraid to make a move. They also see your worth beyond your body and sex. He appreciates your intelligence, personality, and values.
He’s not looking for just cleavage and breasts; he wants the whole package. He makes sure that you feel special in the bedroom. He holds you and hugs you afterward. He tells you how much he loves you.
He doesn’t hesitate to call or text you throughout the day, asking how your day went and if you need anything. He is genuinely curious about you and is looking for ways to connect with you. He knows that the relationship will last longer if he treats you well outside of the bedroom too.
5. He’s not afraid to take the lead
Older men aren’t afraid to take the lead in the bedroom. They have years of experience under their belt, and they know what works and what doesn’t. They also know how to handle constructive criticism, so if you ever have a problem with something they’re doing in the bedroom, they’ll be open to talking about it.
Younger guys aren’t as good at this. They’re always bragging about how many women they’ve slept with, and if you tell an older guy that something isn’t working for you, they’ll take it seriously.
Women who date older men are often accused of being gold diggers, but it seems that the same can’t be said about George and Amal Clooney. Maybe it’s because they look so damn good together!