You may be new to phone dating and excited that you’re meeting amazing people on the chat lines but not sure how to communicate what you want from a new friendship. Maybe it’s slightly uncomfortable because it’s sexual in nature or you are shy and never learned the right way to state what you want. This is the perfect time to learn and one of the nicest platforms to practice it as people in the phone dating community are nice and respectful of your needs and boundaries.

After you speak with a new phone friend a few times, you may start learning that they are and feeling comfortable with them. This is a good sign that it could be a nice fit. The easiest way to get your needs met is to first know what they are and second to let your phone partner know. This way you can truly see if you’re a good fit romantically and even if you are not a match in this manner you can still remain friends.

So the first question to ask yourself is: What do you want? It can range from person to person and it may also depend on what is happening in their life at the time. Are they looking for a bootie call? Or do they want to build a long-lasting friendship and lover? Once you know what you want, you know what to go after and it will be easier for you.

There are many people out there who would love to speak to someone like you over the phone. So don’t worry if one person you meet on the chat line, is not for you. After all, every person you met during a blind date or through online dating has not been for you and there are always new people that want genuine connections.