One thing that women (and men too) confide in us about sex is that they wish their partner would be more expressive. With phone sex, it can be even more challenging to get across: no body language, no eye contact. How do people help their partner feel more engaged?

Belt it out.

It’s a bit of a clichéd idea to use that pornstar moan that sometimes gets mocked. But when it comes down to it, many of us have a touch of suppressed aural expression in us. We like to hear our praises sung, whether it be compliments or just loud, wordless moans. It can be a little nerve-racking for people to get used to, but there are ways to get more comfortable. Here are some points to remember when it comes to adding expression and volume to your phone sex experiences.

Remember It Helps Both You And Your Partner

Honestly, it does. Sounds are some of the best ways to communicate. Words are just the tip of the iceberg. They can build suspense, turn your partner on, and express that you want your partner to keep going with the direction and theme that they are using.

Practice Makes It Better

When you masturbate, go ahead and let out some sounds. It’s ok, no one is judging. It will not only increase your breathing and possibly your heart rate, but it can get you practice making sounds for your new phone sex friend. The vast majority of people love the noises that people make and are turned on by them. Once you are comfortable making the usual moans, squeals, and other sounds, you can move along to dirty talk while you are moaning.

Final Notes

Moans are a perfect way to let your partner know what is working and for phone sex, they are not only impacted by what your partner is saying but also what you are doing to yourself. Our phone sex hotline is a perfect place to practice and get more comfortable with your sounds and your sexuality. Our phone sex men and women are excited to hear from you soon.